Guilt Of Abandonment
If you have a companion dog, you want to see them happy, much like you would a child.
Taking your dog to a groomer or for boarding can be a little nerve-wracking if your friend isn't calm when you leave.
There are several things that can cause this, but there also things you can do to help ease this "separation anxiety".
Keeping A Watchful Eye Much like toddlers at time, your friend learns your triggers, and can use them "against us" if we let them.
With that said, it's tough to know what happens once you leave.
Does your dog quiet down, does he start playing well with the staff and other dogs? It's tough to know.
Dogs' minds are often "out of sight, out of mind", so it is very possible your companion is fine once you leave.
Talk with your dog boarding or grooming provider before you start feeling bad, and see if you can "spy" on your pet.
Make sure it's in a way they won't see you or reveal you're there.
This will help you get a sense for how your pet does once you're gone.
Given our pet is part of our family and we want what's best for him, you may want to consider a new dog boarding or grooming provider if they won't let you spy on your pet.
Quality dog service providers will want you to be comfortable with the level of service and security in their facility and staff.
Check Your Own Emotions Dog's play of the emotions of their masters.
That means if you're feeling stress or anxiety, your dog is likely feel stress and anxiety as well, especially if it's around leaving her with a boarder or groomer.
The solution to this is to "fake" your emotions, much like you might with a toddler.
The calmer you can remain, the calmer your pet will remain.
Surprise Inspection While choosing a boarding or grooming provider, be sure to ask for a tour of the facility; quality pet services providers will be happy to accommodate this request.
While touring, you'll want to look at:
If you're comfortable, your companion will be more comfortable and at ease.
Taking your dog to a groomer or for boarding can be a little nerve-wracking if your friend isn't calm when you leave.
There are several things that can cause this, but there also things you can do to help ease this "separation anxiety".
Keeping A Watchful Eye Much like toddlers at time, your friend learns your triggers, and can use them "against us" if we let them.
With that said, it's tough to know what happens once you leave.
Does your dog quiet down, does he start playing well with the staff and other dogs? It's tough to know.
Dogs' minds are often "out of sight, out of mind", so it is very possible your companion is fine once you leave.
Talk with your dog boarding or grooming provider before you start feeling bad, and see if you can "spy" on your pet.
Make sure it's in a way they won't see you or reveal you're there.
This will help you get a sense for how your pet does once you're gone.
Given our pet is part of our family and we want what's best for him, you may want to consider a new dog boarding or grooming provider if they won't let you spy on your pet.
Quality dog service providers will want you to be comfortable with the level of service and security in their facility and staff.
Check Your Own Emotions Dog's play of the emotions of their masters.
That means if you're feeling stress or anxiety, your dog is likely feel stress and anxiety as well, especially if it's around leaving her with a boarder or groomer.
The solution to this is to "fake" your emotions, much like you might with a toddler.
The calmer you can remain, the calmer your pet will remain.
Surprise Inspection While choosing a boarding or grooming provider, be sure to ask for a tour of the facility; quality pet services providers will be happy to accommodate this request.
While touring, you'll want to look at:
- Is the facility clean? What about where your dog will stay?
- Does the play area match your dog? Will your pet be kept in a cage or are there open play yards?
- Does the staff seem to like animals? If they aren't excited to see your pet, chances are the experience will not be a great one.
- Does the staff ask you questions about your dog? If not, she will not receive personalized attention.
- How does the facility segregate animals in common play areas? Are size and temperament matched?
- If your companion becomes ill while you're away, what is their plan for treatment, and what vets do they work with?
If you're comfortable, your companion will be more comfortable and at ease.